First of all ,
Its not a question of being right or wrong to shout...
the question is why the anger is happening...
and what is this anger...
and why don't u like it...
and why does it leave a bitter taste...
and is it beneficial in any way...
and why r u a slave to it...
and do u want to be a slave to it......
But i will answer ur question directly first...
It is not good to shout in the first place...right or wrong doesn't matter....
the question is why the anger is happening...
and what is this anger...
and why don't u like it...
and why does it leave a bitter taste...
and is it beneficial in any way...
and why r u a slave to it...
and do u want to be a slave to it......
But i will answer ur question directly first...
It is not good to shout in the first place...right or wrong doesn't matter....
So the answer is no....
Your friends ask u to shout at them bcos then they will feel high and mighty
Your friends ask u to shout at them bcos then they will feel high and mighty
unknowingly...superior in a way....
And if u go on continuously shouting at them time n again there is every possibility that they wont like it and u wont be left with any friends.
Deep down nobody wants to be shouted at...still if u wanna try it...pls do...but for the long run its not a wise option.
They tell u not to remain silent...well in a way they r right but shouting is not the right way to handle ur energy...
Anger is the high flow of energy and if it is not let out it shall harm physically and mentally both...
So the right way is....channelize this energy...
Better go and hug the person u want to shout at...the same energy will get converted into love...though ur mind will not like it initially...
If u cant do this...do catharsis in a room....take a pillow...put on ur face and shout in it...
Can't do this...go to the garden and start watering the plants...
Can't do this...start cleaning the house and mopping the floor...
Can't do this...put ur favorite music and dance like crazy in ur room and then just sit...sit quietly all alone...for 10 - 20 minutes...
The idea is to channelize this energy in a creative way rather than in a destructive manner...it's like having a knife , u can either cut somebody or cut the vegetables in the kitchen.
There is another option but its not for u and that is "to watch it...watch the anger and what's happening inside without judging and without thinking." but its a complicated thing, so not for u right now.
Be wise...don't be otherwise....find the right way to channelize the flow of the vibrating energy inside...find ur way, the one u enjoy the most.
If u cant do this...do catharsis in a room....take a pillow...put on ur face and shout in it...
Can't do this...go to the garden and start watering the plants...
Can't do this...start cleaning the house and mopping the floor...
Can't do this...put ur favorite music and dance like crazy in ur room and then just sit...sit quietly all alone...for 10 - 20 minutes...
The idea is to channelize this energy in a creative way rather than in a destructive manner...it's like having a knife , u can either cut somebody or cut the vegetables in the kitchen.
There is another option but its not for u and that is "to watch it...watch the anger and what's happening inside without judging and without thinking." but its a complicated thing, so not for u right now.
Be wise...don't be otherwise....find the right way to channelize the flow of the vibrating energy inside...find ur way, the one u enjoy the most.
Now unless u understand what anger is u wont be able to transcend it
So what is anger actually.
Nature has provided a mechanism to create excess energy in order to follow our primal instinct to survive during a dangerous situation...
Suppose somebody attacks u or an animal jumps on to u...there is an in built mechanism that will generate anger which will bring the excess energy out to fight for survival...that's the basic reason why anger is there.That is why animals and people look angry and aggressive when they fight.
Suppose somebody attacks u or an animal jumps on to u...there is an in built mechanism that will generate anger which will bring the excess energy out to fight for survival...that's the basic reason why anger is there.That is why animals and people look angry and aggressive when they fight.
ANGER IS MEANT TO TACKLE "THE DANGER"
Now there is another kind of anger which comes from perversion of mind and its conditioning...
Now there is another kind of anger which comes from perversion of mind and its conditioning...
THIS ANGER COMES WHEN UR BELIEF SYSTEM IS HURT OR SHATTERED...
THIS ANGER COMES OUT OF FEAR AND NOT BCOS OF ANY REAL DANGER...
THIS ANGER COMES OUT OF EGO PINCHING...
And this anger has basically 3 stages...
1. Uneasiness
2. Irritation
3. The final blast
Suppose somebody suddenly abuses u or says something nasty about ur country or about ur religion or ur dress or ur children or whatever...u will become uneasy...actually or physically there is no real danger to ur life but u will become alert...though its all just words...just hollow words.
1. Uneasiness
2. Irritation
3. The final blast
Suppose somebody suddenly abuses u or says something nasty about ur country or about ur religion or ur dress or ur children or whatever...u will become uneasy...actually or physically there is no real danger to ur life but u will become alert...though its all just words...just hollow words.
Then if the other person continues with that u will get grossly irritated...
And finally a point will reach where ur mind won't be able to hold and ur blood pressure will rise so much that u will eventually blast...ur mind will just go breserk and out of control...the inner resistance or fight will become unbearable and will pour out.
Now this kind of anger is slavery...this happens bcos of ur conditioning and ur expectations or when ur ego is played upon...it happens bcos of ur sleep, bcos of ur unawareness, bcos of ur absence and just mind taking over ur being....the being , the master is just not there...its all mind...and mind is all imaginary...imaginary but essential .
Any body who has a simple understanding of ur conditioning can play around with you. He or she can just say things according to the way he wants to manoeuver u and without knowing anything u will almost be playing in the others hands.
It's almost like that if u want to impress a mother...just say good things about her children and then the way gets clear.
Now this kind of anger is slavery...this happens bcos of ur conditioning and ur expectations or when ur ego is played upon...it happens bcos of ur sleep, bcos of ur unawareness, bcos of ur absence and just mind taking over ur being....the being , the master is just not there...its all mind...and mind is all imaginary...imaginary but essential .
Any body who has a simple understanding of ur conditioning can play around with you. He or she can just say things according to the way he wants to manoeuver u and without knowing anything u will almost be playing in the others hands.
It's almost like that if u want to impress a mother...just say good things about her children and then the way gets clear.
Wives generally know what their husbands are slave to and they know what to say to bring out a certain reaction.
It's just so simple yet nobody understands it.
So u have to see ur conditioning...ur points of mental fixation if u want to get out of this slavery of "ANGER".
So u have to see ur conditioning...ur points of mental fixation if u want to get out of this slavery of "ANGER".
And again comes the point as to how to see ur conditioning...
it's by creating a distance from ur emotions...,by seeing from a distance how and what is happening.
It's just so scientific...pure watching with no interference.
And for that as always i keep telling "meditate...slow down"...hahaha.
There is no other way out...none whatsoever...have no doubts about it.
People will tell u to do good, to have positive thoughts, to accept, to love, to have compassion...and on n on...IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK...FIRST SLOW DOWN...FIRST MEDITATE...or else suffer in hell...anger is just hell...and it creates hell for everybody around...it creates hell within and it's just destruction at it's very best...AND IT JUST BRING MISERY AND SUFFERING...it's almost like "Diabetes gone bad"...it brings other issues along with it and destroys the body.
So now the ball is in ur court as to whether u want to be a slave to anger or a master of it.
So now the ball is in ur court as to whether u want to be a slave to anger or a master of it.
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The other question that was, as to why i am never angry...well bcos i have transcended it.
Lets look at it from a different perspective...
It's not that i can't be angry, it's just that i am never angry...
If need arises i can enact anger with such totality that the person facing will get scared and it has happened...but deep down i am laughing.
Now how to transcend it...well there are many ways or starting points or techniques.
As far as i am concerned i am always aware that i am going to die soon...and it's not that i may, i know that i will...
It's not that i can't be angry, it's just that i am never angry...
If need arises i can enact anger with such totality that the person facing will get scared and it has happened...but deep down i am laughing.
Now how to transcend it...well there are many ways or starting points or techniques.
As far as i am concerned i am always aware that i am going to die soon...and it's not that i may, i know that i will...
How soon i don't know but it can be anytime...
And i am just absolutely clear about it...
And i am very clear that people around me or in my life and the things too can and will disappear soon...be it my family, friends, workers, acquaintances, health, money and perhaps everything...
I am just very clear about it and i don't ever try to cover this thought
So i am left with no reason to be angry when i see that "i m just a matter of time"...
And i am very clear that people around me or in my life and the things too can and will disappear soon...be it my family, friends, workers, acquaintances, health, money and perhaps everything...
I am just very clear about it and i don't ever try to cover this thought
So i am left with no reason to be angry when i see that "i m just a matter of time"...
why would i fight...
what wld i fight for...
what wld i try to save or get by being angry...
I have absolutly no conditioning left...none whatsoever...i have no fixation for any ideas...
And i am not saying that i want to die...
No, what i am saying is that i see no reason to fight unless it is a physical attack and i respond spontaneously to it.
No, what i am saying is that i see no reason to fight unless it is a physical attack and i respond spontaneously to it.
Mentally u cannot guide me to anger...
You just cannot make me slave to it bcos at the very first point ill watch it that it will disappear...
You cannot generate anger in me bcos of words , u cannot generate any emotion bcos of what u say.
And the funny thing is that if i am not angry with anybody...nobody is angry with me.
I just don't hope for anything from anybody...
And when i have no hopes or agenda to be fulfilled by others why would i be angry with anybody.
Yes i do expect a logical behaviour or progression of thoughts and action from the other person but if it doesn't happen still i am never angry...well , the other doesn't want to be logical what can i do...
i just move on without having any remorse or anger.
This is just one way of transcending anger that i have explained...
BE AWARE OF YOUR SHELF LIFE
BE AWARE OF YOUR DEATH
BE AWARE THAT U R ANYWAY GOING TO LOSE WHATEVER U HAVE AND IT CAN BE ANY MOMENT...if u do just this much...just this much, ur life will change, u will see transformation in urself...in ur inner dimensions...try it...don't just go on reading and feeding ur mind...try it and experiment.
There are and can be many ways and techniques to transcend but the key to it is "meditation"...
It is the key which will make u understand the game that is going on...
It is the key which will give u insight to beyond the body...
It will give you the courage to be near to the "one" which has become everything...
Even the anger itself is the dimension of "the one"...
You call it whatever...till u experience it or know it, nothing is going to help...)))...
All the best
Prem Kamal
Prem Kamal
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